Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Of Distance & Love


Victor Hugo once said:

"What I felt for you seems less of earth and more of cloudless heaven."             

               Challenging and difficult, though they may not be what we want to hear, are the words that best describe long distance relationships. Keep in mind however, that the words are challenging and difficult, not impossible. Many people choose to give a long distance relationship a try, with the constant curiosity if it was the right decision to make and if it even stands a chance. The truth is, a long distance relationship has just as much a chance of succeeding as any other relationship.

                 Distance relationships share the same facts as an average relationship. It involves two people who share an interest in each other's lives, care for one another and of course have a love for each other that they hope will only continue to grow. On the other hand, a long distance relationship does have its differences as well.

                 It takes away your ability to see each other on a frequent note, as well as the choice of being intimate whenever you desire, not to mention that there would be major trust required. Being unable to spend time together in a physical presence makes it harder to hang on to, but does not spell out doom for your relationship.

                Trust is a major necessity if you wish to have your relationship from a distance. Without trust and honesty, the relationship is in for danger and unsuccessfulness, just as it would be any other relationship. By accepting the challenge of a long distance relationship, you also accepted the fact that you will have to have the trust and faith that your partner will not be seeing anyone else as promised.

               Being paranoid and accusing will only grow doubts, insecurity and tension between you and none of those three will help the relationship survive successfully.

                Perhaps a groovy kind of love is just around the corner for you and your loved ones.


P/S

To you whom captured my heart, when you love someone, you know in your heart that your love never died. You feel their presence in your heart, even if they are out of your life. 

Sometimes, we may not always get what we “want” in life, however, we will always get what we need in order to grow. We may not consciously ask for certain situations, but on a soul level, we brought them into our lives in order to heal, grow and learn what pure love is truly all about.

Once a man has won a woman's love, the love is his forever.  He can only lose the woman because he did not love them as if they are the other half of the sky. And you are the other half of my sky.

Anyone can catch my eyes out there, but it will takes someone special to catch my heart and that person is you. Until then, take care wherever you are in this universe and put in your heart the fact that I had fallen in love with you way before we knew each other.

Live in my heart and pay no rent forever. I love you Rina.

Loving you,

The Half Moon Serenades.

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