Pablo Picasso once said:
"Love is the greatest refreshment in our life."
“Never having to say you’re sorry” means that you know you are loved truly for who you are. In order to give this kind of love to someone else, we first have to love and accept ourselves with the utmost loving compassion, understanding, and carry zero self-judgment.
True love is unconditional. It is transparent, where we can accept, understand, and allow the other person to make every mistake, falter, stumble, and give genuine heartfelt compassion when they are trying their best, even if their best is can be “better.”
Love carries no judgment or manipulation. Love carries no ego, or the need for ego gratification. True love is pure. It is deep, eternal, and it never dies.
There may come a time when you have to be apart from someone you truly love in your heart. Please realize that sometimes time alone is the greatest gift you can give to another. Sometimes our ego’s “want” more, and sometimes our ego’s “avoid” love. These are the ego’s delusions. They are not, however, the pure love that resides within our deepest heart and soul.
As we peel the layers of ego away, along with self-protective walls, egoistic responses, and manipulation of self to be what we think we need to be in order to be loved and accepted, it is then that we can love someone else purely. This takes great conscious effort, and the desire to grow to become so pure and heart centered, that the ego melts away.
And as times goes by, perhaps a groovy kind of true love is just a human touch away from you.
To you whom I haven't met yet, when you love someone, you know in your heart that your love never died. You feel their presence in your heart, even if they are out of your life.
Sometimes, we may not always get what we “want” in life, however, we will always get what we need in order to grow. We may not consciously ask for certain situations, but on a soul level, we brought them into our lives in order to heal, grow and learn what pure love is truly all about.
Once a man has won a woman's love, the love is his forever. He can only lose the woman because he did not love them as if they are the other half of the sky.
I hope one day, when I finally found you, you can be the other half of my sky. Anyone can catch my eyes out there, but it will takes someone special to catch my heart and I hope that someone is you.
Until then, take care wherever you are in this universe and put in your heart the fact that I had fallen in love with you way before we knew each other. Perhaps time is the only answer for my waiting.
Live in my heart and pay no rent forever.
For the other half of the sky,
The Half Moon Serenades.