Maulana Jalaluddin Muhammad Rumi once said:
"Love don't finally met somewhere, they are in each other all along."
Men think women are complicated while women think men are complicated. Do you believe that it is almost impossible to get your other half to get romantic again? Or for that matter to bring back that romance in your life?
Well before you let go of all hope and accept the fate that there is absolutely nothing that you can do about your love life, allow me to point out the brilliant traditional way that is:
"Text the romance back!"
It might seem far fetched but this way has proven, time and again, that a few text messages, a few special taps on that keyboard are all that you need to make sure that your romance stays alive and that the spark in your relationship is always bright.
Most men and women are so busy stereotyping the other that they don’t realize that both of them crave romance too. Maybe not as much as you’d want them to, but yes, enough to make them want to do something about it. The problem is that they are usually too distracted or too shy to express it.
Maybe they have been brought up believing that they do not need to express such emotions when the truth of the matter is that they actually are dying to want to be able to sweep you off your feet. So what can you do to change this block in your love life? A few text messages is all you need apparently. A few romantic text messages are all that you need to truly make something special.
There are various reasons as to why romance can die in a relationship but the most important one or the most prevalent one is that the two people just stop communicating and slowly the spark dies off.
When was the last time you told your partner that you loved them and did something to keep the spark alive? Text messages are special because they do in fact, churn up emotions inside of you. Not only that, they would make you want to bring back the spark and also show you how you can truly do this.
There must be skeptics running around saying a simple text message cannot do wonders of the like being expressed here, but then if a simple word can start a war, I believe that a simple word can return back the groovy kind of feeling in your love.
To you whom I haven't met yet, did you know when you fall in love, it is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake, and then it subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots are become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is.
Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the desire to mate every second of the day. It is not lying awake at night imagining that someone is kissing every part of your body.
I am telling you some truths. For that is just being in love; which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over, when being in love has burned away.
And that is the love I hope I can found in you one day. I want to love you not just because you are beautiful or good or well-behaved or intelligent or popular, but I want to love you because you are being yourselves.
Until then, put in your heart the fact that I had fallen in love with you way before we knew each other. Perhaps one day, a groovy kind of love will bring us together in a special way.
For you see, each day I love you more. Today more than yesterday and less than tomorrow.
For the other half of the sky,
The Half Moon Serenades.