Wednesday, August 24, 2011

Love Makes The World Go Round



Plato once said:

"At the touch of love, everyone become a poet."

           Love is the most important emotion in the world, hence the saying "love makes the world go round". Fear should never be allowed to get in the way of giving loving energy into the atmosphere of this world.

           Is it actually possible to love too much? If we consider for a moment love and hate as being opposite emotions, we do all no doubt agree that it is easily possible to hate too much. Hate in any degree is a dangerous and destructive emotion. Hating at all therefore constitutes hating too much.

           But love is a positive emotion. Thus I question whether it could ever be possible to love too much. Being afraid to love because you are afraid of being hurt is a survival instinct. 

           Loving someone deeply who does not return your feelings can definitely give rise to uncomfortable emotions which are hard to cope with. Getting over a broken relationship when you still love that other person can be a very tough task indeed. But does this mean that you love too much?

          If you wish to be in a relationship that is deeply loving and close then you will never achieve that state unless you do give freely the love that you would like to receive. To not give yourself that chance curtails the potential depth of your relationships. You in effect have to open your heart to that love or you will not be receptive to it.

          I would for this reason argue that you could never love too much. Rather, it is possible to love another person in inappropriate circumstances. Many people "love blindly" in the sense that there is a total imbalance between logical thought and their emotional experience. 

         Your feelings of love and your craving for love can cloud what you are actually seeing in your relationship. Other people, who stand outside your relationship, can often see those things that you are blind to. But those other people cannot really help, because it is you who needs to somehow find a way to step back from your emotions and allow your more logical mind to play a bigger part in your daily reality.

          Perhaps, a groovy kind of love is just around the corner in our life. 





P/S 

To you whom I haven't met yet, love means nothing in tennis, but it's everything in my life. There is a different view point of what I felt about love and one day, I hope we can shared about it together hands in hands.

Sometimes in our life one day, I believed that we have to walk carefully in the beginning of love because the running across the life can only be done when we are sure that neither of us will laugh if we made a mistake and fall down. Instead, we must remember that love is the art of sharing happiness, a tender love that I hope can become a habit to us one day.

The hours I spend with you I look upon as sort of a perfumed garden, a dim twilight, and a fountain singing to it.  You and you alone make me feel that I am alive.  Other men it is said have seen angels, but I have seen your beauty but my love for you is going to be the only myth that never change.


Until then, take care there wherever you are in this world. Put in your heart one day, if you ever see this, for the fact that I had fallen in love with you way before we knew each other. 


Perhaps, love is the mysterious things that make my soul crawled from hiding place waiting for you.




For the other half of the sky, 

The Half Moon Serenades.



 

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