Wednesday, July 20, 2011

The Art of Confidence In Heart



Robert Louis Stevenson once said:
"A great part of life consists in contemplating what we cannot cure."              

              One of the most common problems with individuals today is that they do not believe in themselves.

              Many people constantly doubt their abilities, skills, talents, opinions, and numerous other aspects that makes them who they are. For these individuals, a lot of precious time is wasted on this demeaning method of thinking.

              If you are looking to improve yourself, your life, the way that others see you, and the way that you see yourself, it is important to understand the importance of believing in yourself. If you miss the opportunity of accomplishing this very important goal, you will continue to miss opportunities all through your life.

            When a person believes in their abilities, skills, talents, and value, they also develop a new logic to life. They understand that for every action there is definitely a reaction, however, each reaction can be a positive and fulfilling experience.

          These individuals have a high level of self-confidence, they are usually quite motivated, and they understand the power of positive thinking.

          Here, you will discover a couple of ways that you can create a positive self-belief. If you are looking to improve yourself, your life, and the general circumstances of your life, this article is for you!

          One of the first methods of learning to believe in yourself is learning to take a close look at yourself and being able to identify the potential that you have.

          Many individuals experience many negative situations throughout their life that may lead them to believe that they pose no value to themselves or others. Usually, these thoughts are created by listening to the harsh assumptions and words of an individual who is relatively close – such as a friend, or a family member.

          As a result of these negative assumptions and harsh words, a person may start to actually believe what others are saying. It is important to understand that everyone has a right to their opinions, but these opinions are often only one viewpoint. Furthermore, many opinions are wrong.

          One of the second methods of learning to believe in yourself is to overcome the obstacle of fear. Many individuals are frightened to attempt a new challenge or task because they are afraid of failing and not succeeding.

          However, any individual with a high level of self worth will quickly inform you that it is better to try, fail, and learn to succeed than it is to not try, failing, and not learning to succeed.

           If you are able to keep in mind that failing is just another form of winning, you are creating a strong belief in yourself. Those that fail in the attempts that they make will learn from the mistakes of the attempt. However, those that never try to attempt anything at all will stagnate in their personal growth.

         The third method to building the belief of yourself is to challenge yourself. In order to do this, you should establish a list of items that you are thoroughly convinced that you are unable to do. Once you do this, you should start tackling each task, one by one. You will quickly find that you are able to do much more than you ever imagined that you could.

          Soon, you will discover that the list that you initially created is getting smaller and smaller. This is a great way to prove to yourself that you do offer something to yourself, your friends, your family, and your world. This will help you establish the ability to believe in yourself.

         Perhaps a groovy kind of life is just around the corner for you.


P/S

To you whom I haven't met yet, life sometimes cuts like a knife. But I do believe that it can be heal from time to time. Maybe we need a miracle for it to happen or maybe we just need to discover it in ourselves. 

I am waiting for you to appear in my life one day. The day I finally found you, that will be one of the happiest day in my life. The feeling of having you so close to my heart, I can't really described it. 
I hope you can take the darkness in my heart away, making it a fun and happy place again. But at the same time, I will make sure I love you more and more each day as time goes by.

Did you know, that love is like an ocean overflowing, and I won't kept it in my heart. I will make you a happy girl one day. Until then, put in your heart the fact that I had fallen in love with you way before we knew each other. Perhaps a groovy kind of love is just around the corner for us.



Loving you forevermore, 
The Half Moon Serenades.

4 comments:

Vincci said...

I love your writing :) A great post indeed!

Phil said...

this was great, the quotes were perfect. Sometimes life is like a knife... u need it to cut up the piece u want, but it can also hurt if not handled the right way

ferdian said...

lovely blog

Hilda said...

it's like the old saying goes: "if life gives you lemon, then go make some lemonade."
I think it's the obstacles in life that makes it so worth living because once you conquer it, you feel so much better and stronger.