Saturday, February 26, 2011

Love at First Sight

  

Charles Dickens once said:

"What is love but a first touch in the eyes of humans?"        

             Do you believe in love at first sight? Scientists study our brain activity and say that it's quiet possible but everyone is free to believe or not to believe.

             Some people claim that it happened to them and it was like you raise your head, meet those eyes and tell yourself, it is he/she!

          Psychologists say that love at first sight depends on our psychological state at the moment. In some case we won't even notice those charming eyes in another they can make a lasting impression on as. Also they say that it takes about 30 seconds to fall in love or precisely speaking to estimate whether the person is worth to fall in love with. 

          By the way psychologists claim that men fall in love first.

          Many factors act in the situation of falling in love from the first sight. These are our ideals, intuition or fast logic, imagination etc. When you fall in love at the first sight you are usually ready and willing to fall in love. 

          Less possibility that it will happen if you are tired, stressed, solving problems in you mind. Of cause the main part in falling in love is given to the appearance, voice, gestures, smell. One person intuitively searches in the other the qualities and the feature to complete him/herself.
 

         Of course beautiful people attract attention the most,  but sometimes it's wrong to fall in love with them easily because those people are experiencing much attention from the people of the other sex all the time and your delightful reaction may simply have no answers.

         But if you suddenly fall in love with quiet unknown person and see that it's mutual that may mean even that mother-nature has chosen a partner that genetically suits you a lot. In this case it is like, match!

         When someone happens to fill up all the necessary categories like tall, cute, big-eyed, looks good, has a style and nice manners, you feels like heaven is watching over you.

           Still the cases when people really had fallen in love from the first sight and lived long and happily after that are rather it. You may dream of a beautiful stranger that waits for you just around the corner but it's wrong to name every slight sympathy and interest to a person the love at first sight. 

           Maybe you're just a little tired of everything that surrounds you or trying to fill the emptiness inside, yet it doesn't mean everyone who looks nice will do. Sometimes it takes patience and time to find out the true nature of your feelings, mind that wonders do happen but not as often as we would like them too. 

          If you suddenly have felt the wings behind you back still try to keep your feet on the ground because if it's really love at first sight nothing will happen to it but if you're taking illusions for reality falling back on the ground can be really hurtful.

             By the way some theories say that we fall in love not from the first sight but from the first smell. Scientist claim that we pay much attention to what our eyes and ears tell us but on the subconscious level the way the person smells play a very big part in his or her expression on us although we don't recognize it.

               As always there are as many opinions as many people. Each one has an equal right to exist because whatever the all those scientifically researches find out love still stays a sphere in which no one quiet sure in anything.


              Perhaps it is just another groovy kind of love in us.

P/S

To you whom I haven't met yet, I really believe that before you and me bump to each other in future, we were half a person. You know there is an old myth about people being half and the other half being in the sky, or in the heaven, or on the other side of the universe, or perhaps just a mirror image. But for me, we are two halves, and together we're a whole. That's what I feel about us. 

Dear mysterious someone, I have been waiting for you for quite a long time. But don't be sad, don't be afraid. Deep in my heart, I will wait for you to appear in my life one day. There was an old saying by a Greek philosopher that I quote, true love is like a blossoming lavender, it is a long wait, but when it blossomed, you will enjoy the air of serenity and love within it. How I wish that quote can be translated into real life.

Until then, close your eyes my special one, feel it. Feel the love that existed in us. One day, this love will connect us together like a fairy tales. I am not a special man in this world, there is no statue dedicated to me, there is no girl out there that chasing me, but you can rest assured that one day, when our heart start to beat as one, you will be the other half of my sky. Forever and always.

Loving you,

Half Moon Serenades.

1 comment:

Dragana said...

I didn't believe in the love on first sign until it happened to me.At the time I had not even realised that it was love that happened. Only later,when I looked back at those first moments remembering every detail, I understood why I felt the way I did. It was love and still is:)